I’ve been to quite a few weddings (obviously) and have noticed that the ultimate best ones are those that had personal touches to them and that are different from any other wedding event. I find it is extremely important for a bride and groom to feel comfortable on their wedding day which is why I am writing this post.
Your wedding is supposed to be all about YOU! Don’t plan your wedding thinking ‘hmmm…I wonder if the guests will like this?’ or ‘is that normal on a wedding day?’. People seem to be so caught up in tradition and what is common now a days that every wedding turns out to be the exact same. Don’t you want your guests to arrive at the venue and notice the effort you put into it all?
The reason why I am writing this is because I want all of my future bride and grooms to take a step back and really try and invision what you’ve always wanted your wedding day to be like. Don’t skip out on some important details because you think that others won’t like them. What’s important is what YOU want on YOUR day. Think about it , your guests are happy – they’ve been invited. But, they are there to celebrate the love that YOU share between one another and YOUR special day!
The smallest details can make a wedding day that much more special. So I am asking all of my brides-to-be to think outside of the box. MAKE YOUR DAY ONE TO REMEMBER!
At first, you need to have a vision or an inspiration. Even if it’s just a colour that you fancy then start building off of that. Once you have a base that you can build off of, everything will flow into that direction and people will start to see a pattern and a taste of what your wedding day will be like. Then if you continue to follow that pattern, your wedding day will be unique and everyone will notice the effort, thought and those true touches that represent you and your hunny! I had a friend build her whole wedding around a piece of birch bark, and let me tell you – it was one of the most gorgeous weddings I’ve ever attended!
There are many vendors out there who are willing to help you make your day as unique and different as you want it. They are there for that and ecstatic to be able to do something out of the norm!
Here are a couple local or Canadian vendors that might help you:
My Stylish Weddings offer an assortment of details from cake toppers to favor boxes.
The Girl With the Most Cake and Cucina Dolce offer some yummy treats! Or why settle with a cake when you can offer cupcakes by Isobel.
PaperStudio or One Cat Squared Artistic Design offer anything ‘paper’.
We all know how expensive weddings could end up being which is why there are MANY do-it-yourself wedding websites out there for those creative brides!
http://diy.wed-central.com/
http://greylikesweddings.wordpress.com
http://www.stylemepretty.com/category/wedding-resources/diy-projects/
On a different note, I am totally digging these awesome hair pieces. Whether it be for your big day or just for casual wear, you NEED to go out and purchase one! Here are a few links to get you started:
Kaang Accessories
Ban.do (These ones are great for weddings!)
LaBoheme